I can see now why so many twentysomethings in Norway with no job,
nor perhaps a steady partner, take the plunge into motherhood without
so much as a blink. Heck, you can even become crown princess of
Norway.
I’m of course looking at this from the jaded perspective of a New
Yorker having her first child at age 35. That’s not because Americans
are unfeeling cold workaholics that would rather still fit into a size
6 Donna Karan dress for as long as possible (not that that’s a bad
thing), but it just isn’t always feasible in the US to afford a child
and a career.
First, you have to find a single man in New York that is willing to
commit – a feat in itself. Once the relationship is in place, you have
to get a job with more than 50 employees and worked there one full
year, otherwise you won’t even
be able to receive the paltry 4-6 weeks paid maternity leave that the
US provides under the Family and Medical Leave Act. And you have to
have good medical coverage, otherwise you’ll have to postpone the
blessed event until you have a small fortune.
This doesn’t even take into account the stigma from your superiors
and co-workers once they find out you’re going off the career
track.
But what happens when you’re like me: a US citizen of
Italian-American origin living and working in Norway for a British
newspaper? If I had been subject to UK employment laws, I would
probably receive only 18 weeks paid leave, less than a third of the
Norwegian allowance.
Lucky enough, I had taxed to Norway for many years and qualified to
receive the same benefits as Norwegian women (although it took five
phone calls and five different answers from the social security office
to straighten that out).
Not everyone is as lucky. My Italian girlfriend living and working
here was forced to collect her maternity benefits from Italy because
she had not taxed to Norway long enough before the birth – news that
came a shock to her. Still, that’s a lot better than some other
places.
The International Labour Office believes at least 14 weeks’ paid
leave should be the minimum. The World Health Organisation recommends
16 weeks. Clearly, Norway is a great place to have children given the
up to 52 weeks’ leave. But the country has the resources to do so. With
a 50 per cent personal income tax rate and loads of petroleum wealth
flowing into their coffers, the country can afford cushy welfare
schemes.
But even I sometimes wonder whether the Norwegian system is too
generous and encourages women to drop out of the workforce. Despite the
poor maternity leave benefits in the US, there is a higher percentage
of females in the boardrooms of US companies.According to US research
group Catalyst, women comprise 12.4 per cent of the boards of the 500
largest US companies, nearly twice as high as Norway.
I guess regardless of where they are in the world, women today will
have to make some sacrifices along the way – either on the corporate
ladder or in their pocketbook.You just have to make sure you procreate
in the right country.
